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本帖最后由 单曲循环 于 2013-9-7 14:50 编辑
上电视，上教材！！我们华人街上多少这样的父母？！形象自重！
孩子无知，我们为人父母要教好他们。细节决定着形象。如果孩子尿急，该怎么办？当然是找厕所！你当街母乳没人会在意，可是你当街拉屎撒尿是不文明的。应该从小培养孩子的羞耻之心！
新闻发出后,很多妈妈爸爸会问: "没WC 怎么办?你是要孩子尿裤子还是坚持你的找厕所?" 我觉得,这是属于钻牛角的问题.
有一句话说:" 你不想,你会找各种理由,你若想 就会找各种方法."
个人认为,一个底线限制是要监守的.却应该是灵活运用的. 如果不坚守底线,你的素质会一点一点降低了,掉地上. 举个列子: 你今天觉得孩子尿尿忍不住了,不能尿裤子,也更不能憋出病来,于是500 米远的厕所"来不及" 去了, 离厕所300米远的地方就脱了尿! 下次,也许你有80%的可能会在200米远的地方尿. 等你习惯了当街尿尿,,,那离当街便便也不远了.你会想: 不是一样脱了裤子么? 也许你第一次是在公园的某个角落人烟稀少的地方, 可能两个人,三个人,在远处. 可是,下一次,4个人5 个人的时候,你会觉得: 有什么关系?差别不大. 于是,,,当街,,,也不是什么觉得难为情的事了.
对于父母的素质低要求,给孩子们 带来的是毁坏了他的羞耻之心. 人无羞耻之心,不会自重. 即便以后自己懂事了,可是习惯了这些细节的随便,很多时候,会自我放弃. 这就是为什么有些人穿上龙袍,也不象太子.
欢迎各位看官回帖争辩!
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[size=+0]lating on social media reportedly showing a woman holding a young boy urinating into a garbage bin at a Richmond, B.C., mall has sparked a debate on public etiquette, cultural norms and parenting.
A flurry of responses has erupted on Twitter, Reddit, Facebook and message forums around the world. As well, the mall has said it plans to look at ways to prevent such actions. Richmond Centre mall said in an emailed statement to CBC News: "Given that we have these facilities throughout the common areas of the mall, we don't have any formal regulation or signage warning customers not to urinate, defecate or expectorate on the property. We are currently looking at this matter and ways to prevent similar occurrences in the future." Social media users, meanwhile, have been poking fun at the image.. "#why would you let your child pee in the mall bins? They have toilets," says a tweet by DonMunnu. "If kids get to pee in garbage cans in the mall then I see know reason why I can't," says another tweet, from MentalityMagazine. [size=+0]Common practice in China? Many forums also held questionable debates about immigrant behaviour and Chinese cultural norms. Social media users, including many who identified themselves as being of Chinese heritage, said they believed the woman and child in the photo were Chinese. "I knew they were Asian before I even clicked the link. This is a fairly common occurrence in China," wrote Reddit user LaunchThePolaris. In many parts of rural China, the practice of young children going to the bathroom in public is deemed as widespread, with toddlers and babies wearing pants with slits rather than diapers, said Jonathan Manthorpe, a foreign correspondent who has lived and worked in the country. "A few years ago, they were living very rough lives of peasants. I'm sure all of your viewers who have travelled in rural China will see, as I have seen, in many places that the standards of toilets is very different," Manthorpe told CBC News. But Queenie Choo, CEO for SUCCESS, a Vancouver immigrant group, disagreed. "I have travelled to China and I don't think there is common practice in any city that I have observed." [size=+0]This photo of a boy peeing into a garbage bin at the Richmond Centre Mall has gone viral. (Vancity Buzz/Twitter user @brandonbeavis)
Some readers argued urinating in public is not an Asian or Chinese issue alone. "I've seen tons of Caucasian adults peeing everywhere. Never an Asian (yet). This is fairly commonplace in Asia though so while I agree its deplorable, its not like this an ingrained Chinese thing," wrote one reader in response to the Vancity Buzz post. [size=+0]Parenting practices questioned Others turned the debate into an issue about parenting. Another Vancity Buzz reader wrote: "why don't we turn this around into a positive. A little boy needed to pee and better than him wetting his pants or the ground you walk on. At least he went into a lined container!!! When little children need to go they really need to go." Miranda Chiasson, a mother in Mission, B.C., told CBC News there is also a growing trend in North America to practise what's called "elimination communication" with infants and toddlers — instead of using diapers, parents learn to read the cues their child needs to use the bathroom, and respond. "I would say that scene is a mother practising elimination communication with her child," she said. "He's signalled to her, cued to her, let her know in some way that he needs to pee right now. And she's seen that there's not really a park or a grassy place to take him so she's taken the best advantage of what's around her."
连接附原文和视频http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/story/2013/08/30/bc-boy-urinating-richmond.html
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发表于 2013-9-7 12:59:19
这个 一般中国的老人都这样做 而且不少年轻妈妈 也差不多都这样
好样的 我还想说 我没儿子 不知道 如果有儿子 是不是也会这样
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，憋坏了可不是闹着玩的。像本文主人公这样的应该不多吧
